Showing posts with label Carnival of Genealogy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Carnival of Genealogy. Show all posts

Thursday, October 30, 2014

From the Archives: 29 East LaCrosse - Haunted or Not?



"From the Archives" highlights favorite or popular blog posts from this blog's past from 2006 to the present. This particular post features a haunting tale, appropriate for Halloween. It was originally published Sunday, October 14, 2007.

Friday, October 12th, marked the eleven-year anniversary of the day we signed on our home at 29 East LaCrosse. Built in 1908 (some documents say 1907), it is certainly by no means old by East Coast or European standards, but here in what was once a Wild West city where frontier soldiers, Idaho miners, and Northeastern Washington lumberjacks would freely spend their hard-earned cash, the fact that it's still standing and habitable says a lot. Add to that the discovery while researching our home's history that it has been a rental for much of its structural life, along with the fact that it bumps up against a commercial zone, and it's doubly amazing that it hasn't been razed by now. Built on what was once the rural edge of town with no houses on the lots behind it, it now sits squarely in a north central neighborhood, several miles from the the city limits.

Its history as a rental becomes all too apparent whenever we start a remodeling job (which has seemed continuous over these past eleven years!). Shoddy worksmanship, dangerous wiring, and poor construction have all been uncovered, replaced, and redone. More than once, we've scratched our heads and wondered aloud, "What were they thinking?" There are days (usually in the winter) when I feel the walls close in on me and deeply feel the cramped living arrangements and lack of privacy in this seven-room residence. But most of the time, even while wishing it were bigger, I love this house! Five years ago--our sixth anniversary at this address--it became the home I had lived in the longest during my then-35 years on this planet. That realization felt odd to me, since my years in my childhood homes felt longer than the time I've spent here. Still, there are many memories, like ghosts, that flit around me within these walls. In the early mornings and late at night, the floors creak beneath my feet as I walk from room to room. The ladderback doors and old frame windows give a character to the place as I consider how those before us spent their days and nights in this abode. There were many who lived here; more, I'm sure, than the city directories will ever reveal, as renters moved in and out between the dates of publication.

Eight years ago, a reporter from the local paper knocked on our front door and said he was doing a human-interest story for Hallowe'en. Following up on archived stories from The Spokesman-Review, he was visiting the current residents of homes that had once been reported as being haunted. Intrigued, we invited him in as he handed us an undated clipping from the Depression years about two young women who claimed to have experienced a ghost in what was now our home. Had we ever heard this story, he asked us. Had we ever seen a ghost or heard anything that was unexplainable? No, we replied, and no, again. Nevertheless, he interviewed us and wrote up a nice piece for the Entertainment section of the paper. In reading the old clipping further, we realized that the young women had fallen behind in their rent, and had concocted the story to avoid paying their bill once they had moved out. So our insistence that our house was not haunted was justified...or was it?

Three years ago, we had to put our beloved apricot tabby, Sammy, to sleep after she became fatally ill. Sammy had loved our children with a protective fierceness rivaling that of a dog. Every night, she would cuddle up with Matt at the beginning of the evening, both of them falling asleep. In the middle of the night, she would pad quietly into Missy's room and spend the rest of the early morning hours with her there. It was a ritual; I'd tuck Matt and Sammy in every night, and wake Missy and Sammy together every morning. Never allowed in the adults' bedroom, she nonetheless would jump up on our bed and nuzzle me awake every time one of the kids was ill in the middle of the night. Although by the time Sammy died we had acquired Tessa, our current feline companion, her loss was devastating to us all. We brought her home in a cardboard box, which my [ex-] husband buried deeply between our shed and the alley, filling the hole with large rocks and earth so that it could not be dug up by unattended dogs.

Several months ago, my son mentioned that he still sees Sammy. At nearly 14, he loves math and science, has an ironic sense of humor, and can out-argue an attorney. I mention this because he's the least likely of any of us to be whimsical, a dreamer, a believer in fantasies. But he's seen her, in our yard, on the couch, in his bedroom. About once a month, in the corner of his eye, he'll see her there, and when he turns to look directly at her, she's gone. A ghost, an angel, a whisper of a memory...whatever she is, she's welcome to stay in this very small, somewhat old, creaky-floored house.

This post was [originally] written for the 34th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy, "Halloween and the Supernatural!"

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Friday, December 31, 2010

Resolutions 2011


res o lu tion (noun)
A resolve or determination: to make a firm resolution to do something.
The act of resolving or determining upon an action or course of action, method, procedure, etc.
The mental state or quality of being resolved or resolute; firmness of purpose.
A solution, accommodation, or settling of a problem, controversy, etc.

Source: resolution. Dictionary.com. Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Random House, Inc. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/resolution (accessed: January 01, 2009).

The topic for the 101st Carnival of Genealogy is My genealogy research/writing plan for 2011. Without further ado, here is my plan:

1. Finish my 52 Weeks of Online American Digital Archives and Databases series. And when I'm done, I want to expand them into an eBook. I also want to continue adding to my Online Historical Newspapers and Online Historical Directories websites. (writing)

2. Visit my local Family History Center and delve into Levi Edward McLallin and Clarissa Cleveland. My life has gotten so busy, I haven't visited the FHC in ages. I would love to pursue Levi's and Clarissa's ancestries back at least one more generation. (research)

3. Find every ancestor on every U.S. Federal Census possible, download the image, add the info to my database, and cite my sources correctly. Sounds like a huge goal, but I've already begun it using Google Docs' spreadsheets. (organization)

4. Get my resume updated and use contacts and social media to get the word out to the public about my presentations. (speaking)

I'm keeping my goals simple this year, because I've found from last year that the simpler they are and the shorter the list, the more likely they are to happen!

Wednesday, December 01, 2010

The Strange Tale of Uzza Robbins; or His One Hanging, Two Murders, Three Exhumations, and Four Burials


Uzza Robbins was a blacksmith with an even blacker temper. His McKean County, Pennsylvania neighbors avoided him as much as possible, only engaging him in conversation over necessary smithy business. When he walked down the streets of Port Allegheny, even children gave him a wide berth. There were whispers throughout the community that the death of Uzza's adult son in the mid-1840s was perhaps not the result of an epileptic fit, as Uzza claimed.

Born in 1792 in either Vermont or New York, Uzza had a number of children, one of whom being my 3rd-great-grandmother, Marinda. He moved frequently, quite possibly the result of not getting along well with his neighbors: in 1820, he was residing in Chenango, Broome County, New York. In 1830, he was in Lawsville, Susquehanna County, Pennsylvania. By 1840, he was in Sweden Township, Potter County, Pennsylvania. And by 1849, he had set up a blacksmith shop along what now is the Grand Army of the Republic Highway (State Highway 6) just southeast of Port Allegheny in McKean County.


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Uzza's blacksmith shop stood somewhere along this stretch of highway (not necessary at Point A)

In the summer of 1849, Uzza apparently was at odds with his second wife, Wealthy Briggs, widow of Johnathan Clark. She and her daughter went berry picking and while they were out, Uzza prepared some peas, laced with arsenic. After the women returned and ate their meal, they both fell ill. Wealthy died in terrible agony, but although the daughter was extremely ill, she recovered and was able to report the incident. Uzza was arrested on 7 August 1849 and held in the jail in Smethport, the county seat.

Since the old courthouse building was considered unsafe, court was held in the Methodist church. O.J. Hamlin, Isaac Benson, and N.W. Goodrich were the prosecutors, while S. P. Johnson, C. B. Curtis, C. W. Ellis and L. D. Wetmore, were Uzza's defense attorneys. Since it would be the first execution in McKean County, many wanted to see the old man swing. While a good effort was made for leniency, alas, it was to no avail. Uzza was convicted on 19 January 1850 and sentenced to be hung.

When the 1850 U.S. Federal Census was taken on June 1st, Uzza was enumerated with Waterman J. Davis and his wife Helen (also found as Ellen in later censuses) in Keating Township, McKean County. It's likely that Helen/Ellen was another daughter of his, for who else would take in an asthmatic bad-tempered convict sentenced to hang, except family?


At some point before Uzza's death, a young man named Perry Barrows, who was interested in phrenology, came to Uzza and offered payment for his skull after his execution. (Phrenology was a pseudoscience, popular in the early to mid-1800s, that taught that the physical size, shape, and features of a person's brain affected their personality, intelligence, and mental competence.) Needless to say, Uzza refused Barrow's offer.

On 30 August 1850, Uzza was hung in Smethport. His body was buried in a cemetery that was located on the south side of Water Street between Fulton and State Streets. The grave was located at the southwest corner of a barn which belonged to the Baptist parsonage on Water Street. During the night, the grave was opened, the head cut off the body, and was carried away for supposed examination.


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The site of the old cemetery in Smethport

The next day, someone noticed that Uzza's grave had been disturbed and his body was exhumed (again) with the result that a party of young men went looking for Barrows to see if they could recover Uzza's head. Barrows worked for J.C. King, a wagon maker in Smethport, and it was at the wagon shop that Miles Irons, one of the young men in the search party, uncovered the head buried in a pile of shavings under a work bench. And as a reporter for the Port Allegany Reporter later quipped, "Barrows having a good pair of legs walked off between the next two days and he is evidently walking yet as he has not been heard from since." Uzza's head was reunited with his body, which was buried for a third time.

Ezra Bard was sheriff at the time that Uzza had been executed, and he swore out a warrant to have Uzza's son's remains disinterred for examination. R. E. Bellows, one of the jurors in Uzza's trial, removed the body of the son. The examination revealed that the son's skull was fractured at the right temple, consistent with a blow from a heavy object, such as a blacksmith's hammer.

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On 17 October 1905, John Grigsby was excavating in the rear of S. S. Fry's barn in Smethport near the corner of Fulton and Water Streets, when he uncovered a coffin. Upon opening it, he found the skeleton of a man. There was little doubt that the remains belonged to Uzza Robbins, the first man hung for murder in McKean County 55 years earlier. The use of that particular tract of land as a cemetery had been discontinued around 1865. The Port Allegany Reporter ran an article three days later about the discovery: "After the burial of Robbins it is alleged that the body was taken up and the head severed from the trunk by the employees of medical men who wished to examine the murderer's brain, and that the head was afterward reinterred with the body. The condition of the skeleton bears out this statement, as the skull lay tilted back, at one side of the coffin, appeared to have been entirely detached from the remainder of the skeleton, which lay in the ordinary position. The coffin and bones are in remarkable good condition considering the many years they have lain in the ground. Now let the Historical Society attend to this."

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A question remains: Where was he buried the fourth time...was he reburied at the original location, or taken to the current cemetery?

It's obvious that a story like this in one's family tree would either get embellished over time, or be hidden from future generations out of shame. In this case, it was the latter. I never knew about this fascinating, gory tale of my ancestor until the day I googled Uzza Robbins' name, which I knew from his daughter Marinda's death certificate. A link to the Painted Hills Genealogical Society reconnected the truth from the past to the generations of the present. The 1850 U.S. Federal Census confirmed the story, with the label "C [for convict] Murder" on the same line as Uzza's name.

I tell this story not to dishonor my ancestor or my family, but to reveal the truth of our family history so that we can understand our past, and understand the actions of the family members that had to deal with the impact of this tragedy and service of justice. It explains why--with other tragedies taking place--my Robbins family left Pennsylvania for Michigan after the Civil War. It also clarifies why it's been so difficult untangle the Robbins family tree: to find the names of Marinda's siblings, and to determine if Marinda was related to her husband, Joseph Robbins. It also accounts for why Marinda and Joseph's second son was enumerated as Uzza Robbins in the 1850 U.S. Federal Census, but why he never used that name at any other time for the rest of his life, preferring instead to go by Joseph Benson Robbins.


Every family has One...a Black Sheep Ancestor, a Tangled Family Line, or a Complex Tale of Tragedy and Black Comedy. In my case, they came together in my 4th-great-grandfather, Uzza Robbins, who was executed by one hanging, committed two murders, was exhumed three times and buried four. He was definitely the One I thought about when Jasia challenged us to write on the theme "There's One in Every Family" for the 100th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy.

Thursday, July 08, 2010

This and That

This is just a little update on what's happening on my blog and in the geneablogging world:

For those of you who have been following my 52 Weeks of Online American Digital Archives and Databases series, I am still working on the next post. Jamboree, a family wedding, and other events have delayed my work on them, and of course(!) the next post is Massachusetts, a state with nearly 400 years of written history, which increases the opportunity of what is available online. Combing through the vast number of websites and posting the long list of links is taking quite a bit of my free time...I've been working on it daily for the past two weeks! Hopefully, it will get posted soon. Thanks for your patience!




The 95th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy (Annual Swimsuit Edition) has been posted at Creative Gene.



The July 2010 Edition of the Graveyard Rabbits Carnival - Scavenger Hunt has been posted over at The Graveyard Rabbit Association blog.

Elyse Doerflinger is offering a pack of six genealogy forms for free here on her blog, Elyse's Genealogy Blog. They are in .pdf format and can be downloaded and printed.
The following forms are included in the pack:
  • Internet Research Log and Calendar
  • Microfilm to Order
  • Google Book Search
  • Census Tracker Worksheet
  • Ancestor Timeline
  • Research Goals Brainstorm Sheet
 Hope you are enjoying your summer!

Thursday, July 01, 2010

Good Times at Green Lake

The Hoekstra Family at Green Lake, Allegan Co., Michigan. 28 Aug 1937. Original photograph privately held by Miriam Robbins Midkiff, [ADDRESS FOR PRIVATE USE], Spokane, Washington. 2010.

Don't they look like they're having the time of their life? It's the Hoekstra Family, August 1937, at Green Lake in Allegan County, Michigan. When I first saw this photo about a year ago in an album that belonged to my maternal grandmother, Ruth Lillian HOEKSTRA, I immediately knew what I was going to submit for the next Swimsuit Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy!

Those hot, muggy Western Michigan summers in the days before the working man (or woman) had central air conditioning could only be relieved by going out to the local lake. All the young--and middle aged--people are dressed in swimwear, while Grandpa (standing in the back row) and Grandma (sitting on the far right) are more suitably dressed for their generation, despite the heat. Grandpa and Grandma are my 2nd-great-grandparents, Martin and Jennie (TON) HOEKSTRA, both first-generation Americans, and are making their online photo debut! Their son, John Martin HOEKSTRA, is my great-grandfather, and he is the man in the front peeking through the inner tube. His sister, Grace, is sitting on the far left. Her husband, Adrian KLAP, is kneeling on her left behind her. Between Grace and John are four girl cousins, left to right: Ruth HOEKSTRA (my grandmother, age 18), Esther KLAP (unknown age, probably 10-12), Marian KLAP (age 14), and Mary Louise HOEKSTRA (age 14). The tall girl standing in the back is Hope Mildred HOEKSTRA (age 16). My great-grandmother, Lillian Fern (STRONG) HOEKSTRA probably took this photo. Grace and Adrian's eldest two children, John and Dorothy, do not appear. They were in their 20s and probably had their own families by this time.

I don't know if this cabin was rented or owned by any of the HOEKSTRA family. But it's obvious that they were there for at least the day, enjoying themselves, swimming, boating, and probably picnicking. I can almost hear that old tune, "In the good old summertime..." playing in the background!

Written for the 95th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy: The Annual Swimsuit Edition

Sunday, February 21, 2010

One Carnival, Two Carnivals, Three Carnivals...and More!

Wow! Has this ever been a week for blog carnivals! The following were published within the last few days:



The 20th Edition of the Smile for the Camera Carnival was the first to be published on Tuesday, February 16th at Shades of the Departed. Valentine was the topic, and twenty bloggers submitted beautiful images (photos, scrapbook pages, valentines and love letters) to illustrate their posts.

The footnoteMaven says "the word prompt for the 21st Edition of Smile For The Camera is "Give Their Face A Place." March is Women's History month and you are asked to picture women back into history. The unknown, known and unsung women who are often the foundation of our family history. Give their face a place. The interpretation is yours. Admission is free with every photograph!

"Your submission may include as many or as few words as you feel are necessary to describe your treasured photograph. Those words may be in the form of an expressive comment, a quote, a journal entry, a poem (your own or a favorite), a scrapbook page, or a heartfelt article. The choice is yours!"
Deadline for submission is midnight (Pacific Time) on March 10. You can submit by sending an email to footnoteMaven. Include the title and permalink URL of the post you are submitting, your name, and the name of your blog. Put 'Smile For The Camera' clearly in the title of your email!  You can also use the handy submission form provided by Blog Carnival.

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The 90th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy was published at Creative Gene on Thursday, February 18th. The theme was the iGene Awards (the Best of the Best), and they were done in style according to those famous annual movie awards! Twenty-three bloggers wrote about their Best Pictures, Best Screenplays, Best Documentaries, Best Biographies, and Best Comedies. My own post, AnceStories Presents the 2009 iGene Awards, was included. Whose submission was the feature article? You'll have to read the carnival post to find out!

The 91st Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy will be A Tribute to Women, an annual event which corresponds with Women's History Month (March). Our hostess Jasia writes, "This is will be the 4th annual edition on this topic so we're going to change it up just a bit to keep it fresh... Write a biography about a woman on your family tree starting with a timeline of their life. The timeline can be a separate post that you link to from your biography (which can itself be a series of articles) but please just submit one post to the COG. If you haven't written from a timeline before you may find it a great learning/research experience! Since this topic will likely require more research and writing time you'll have a full month till the deadline. There will be no March 1st edition of the COG. The deadline for submissions will be March 15th. Thirty submissions will be accepted.

"Submit your blog article to the next edition of the Carnival of Genealogy using our carnival submission form. Please use a descriptive phrase in the title of any articles you plan to submit and/or write a brief description/introduction to your articles in the 'comment' box of the blog carnival submission form. This will give readers an idea of what you've written about and hopefully interest them in clicking on your link. Past posts and future hosts can be found on our blog carnival index page."

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Jessica Oswalt published the 29th Edition of the Carnival of Central and Eastern European Genealogy on her blog, Jessica's Genejournal, on Saturday, February 20th. The topic was a carousel, which mean people could choose their own. There were seven submissions on a variety of interesting topics, and I can't wait to read them!

Jessica shares, "The topic for the next edition is on 'The Village of my Ancestor'. Each article should deal with any known history of any location that one ancestor may have lived. It could be history of a town or area in the U.S. or an European Village, and will be hosted by Al of Polish-American Genealogy Research. The deadline for submissions will be March 19th, and the edition will be published on March 22nd. You can submit your articles here."

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Kathryn Lake of Looking4Ancestors published the 8th Edition of the Canadian Genealogy Carnival today, February 21st. Five bloggers submitted posts on the topic, Winter Sports in the Great White North. We all know that the Canucks are the hosts of this year's Winter Games, so the topic is very appropriate!

"The topic for 9th edition of the CGC is Canadian Fashion Fads.  Share with us by photo and/or post the popular fashions of your Canadian family.  Submit your entry using the convenient submissions form at Blog Carnival. The deadline is April 16, 2010."

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And if all that wasn't enough, folks, there are not one--but two!--new carnivals coming to town!

The first is the Carnival of Genealogical Societies. For the first time ever, genealogical society blogs will be able to participate in their very own carnival! Hosted by the California Genealogical Society and Library Blog, the first edition of the CGS will be themed Doin' Things Right:

"Shine a spotlight on a specific program, project, or publication at a genealogical society and tell us why it worked. Tell an anecdote about how you benefited from a particular genealogical society service. Share a success story and be specific! The deadline for submissions is March 7, 2010.

"Please do indicate in your article that you are writing for the First Edition of the Carnival of Genealogical Societies. Submit your blog article using the the submission form provided by Blog Carnival. Please use a descriptive phrase in the title of any article you plan to submit and/or write a brief introduction to your articles in the "remarks" section of the form."

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The second new carnival is the Carnival of African-American Genealogy. How appropriate that this is being announced during Black History Month!  Luckie Daniels of Our Georgia Roots is the carnival host, and she announces the first edition in Spread the Word! We're Having a Carnival!

"On March 19th Restore My Name – Slave Records and Genealogy Research, will kick-off the first of an ongoing series of African-American themed carnivals, intended to be a gathering place for the community to share and learn about African-American genealogy.

"Our first CoAAG discussion theme will deal with how records of slave ownership are handled by the genealogy researcher. Contributors will be asked to write a blog post (at their own blogs) on one or more of the following aspects:
  • What responsibilities are involved on the part of the researcher when locating names of slaves in a record?
  • Does it matter if the record(s) are related to your ancestral lines or not?
  • As a descendant of slave owners, have you ever been pressured by family not to discuss or post about records containing slave names?
  • As a descendant of slaves, have you been able to work with or even meet other researchers who are descendants of slave owners?
  • Have you ever performed a Random Act of Genealogical Kindness involving slave ownership records? Or were you on the receiving end of such kindness?
"Submissions will be accepted starting today through March 12th 11:59 PM EST. Once you’ve created your blog post, use the blog carnival submission form to make sure it is included in the CoAAG post..."

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Whew! Now if you'll excuse me, I've got a whole lot of reading to do...and some thinking about some posts to write for next month's carnivals!

Monday, February 15, 2010

AnceStories Presents the 2009 iGene Awards!



It's that time of year! It's Academy Awards time... time for the Academy of Genealogy and Family History, a.k.a. AGFH, to honor their best blog posts of 2009 in the following 5 categories:

  • Best Picture - Best old family photo that appeared on your blog in 2009. Tell us which you liked best and why.
  • Best Screen Play - Which family story that you shared in 2009 would make the best movie? Who would you cast as your family members?
  • Best Documentary - Which was the best informational article you wrote about a place, thing, or event involving your family's history in 2009?
  • Best Biography - Which was the best biographical article you wrote in 2009?
  • Best Comedy - Which was the best funny story, poem, joke, photo, or video that you shared on your blog in 2009? 
 And the envelopes, please...


Best Picture: "Who Are You? A CROTHERS Family Member?" featured a unlabeled photograph from a collection of CROTHERS family photos that had been shared with me by a distant relative. Using books written to help those like myself identify historical photos, I came to my own conclusion. Check out the scrapbook page I created, too!

Best Screen Play: "Fire!" is the best family drama...and probably the only one...that I wrote about in 2009. Dakota Fanning would play my great-grandmother Lillian as a girl, Taylor Lautner would be brother Ed, Kirsten Dunst would play sister Ethel, and Haley Joel Osment would be brother Frank. Ma and Pa would be played by Meryl Streep and Russell Crowe, respectively.

Best Documentary: This is very difficult for me to choose. I probably wrote more informational articles in 2009 than I did in other years, mostly because I did not have access to my computer files for most of the year. The five main documentaries that I created were "Who Are Our Brickwall Ancestors, and Why Aren't We Blogging About Them Regularly?" (which led to Madness Monday); the nine-part series, "Getting More Traffic to Your Blog"; a requested article by Evelyn Thierault of the "Festival of Postcards" carnival, "A Beginner's Guide to Scanning Postcards"; the highly-acclaimed "State Census Records," which was noted by Dick Eastman and sent the most readers to my blog EVER; and "Citing Those Christmas Cards, Holiday E-mails, and Family Photos," a tongue-in-cheek look at citations derived from holiday correspondence.

And the winner is: "Who Are Our Brickwall Ancestors..."! Why? This is what genealogy blogging is all about...getting the information about those brickwall ancestors to the world via the Internet in the hope of another researcher finding the information, connecting with you, and breaking down the brick wall!

Best Biography: "My Brickwall Ancestor: Berber 'Barbara' J. (DeJONG) VALK (1854 - 1934)" not only was my first brickwall post, it was a finely detailed and cited analysis of my records and research for this ancestor. I'm proud of my work on this article and hope to eventually break through this obstacle!


Best Comedy: As mentioned before, "Citing Those Christmas Cards, Holiday E-mails, and Family Photos," was a tongue-in-cheek post, and probably my only comedic one in 2009.

There you have it, folks! Tune in next February for the 2010 iGene Awards...posts are already being published in anticipation of being mentioned in 2011 as the Best of the Best for this year!

Friday, February 05, 2010

The 89th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy is Posted

poster courtesy of the footnoteMaven

"Ode to My Family's History" is the theme of the 89th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy, recently posted by Jasia on her blog, Creative Gene. Eighteen bloggers participated by writing a variety of types of poetry honoring their ancestry, reflecting sentiment, humor, and pride. You'll want to stop by and see who the feature blogger is for this edition!

Jasia then announces: 
The topic for the next edition (#90!) of the COG will be: The Third Annual iGene Awards, The Best of The Best! It's Academy awards time... time for the Academy of Genealogy and Family History, aka AGFH, to honor their best blog posts of 2009 in the following 5 categories:
  • Best Picture - Best old family photo that appeared on your blog in 2009. Tell us which you liked best and why.
  • Best Screen Play - Which family story that you shared in 2009 would make the best movie? Who would you cast as your family members?
  • Best Documentary - Which was the best informational article you wrote about a place, thing, or event involving your family's history in 2009?
  • Best Biography - Which was the best biographical article you wrote in 2009?
  • Best Comedy - Which was the best funny story, poem, joke, photo, or video that you shared on your blog in 2009?
Please feel free to use this graphic on your post.

Start digging back into your archives and choose which of your blog posts deserve to be recognized for outstanding achievement. This is not a competition between bloggers but a chance for you to spotlight your own shining efforts at recording your genealogy and family history in 2009.

There is no nomination process. You just need to announce your winning blog posts for the 5 categories mentioned above in an article on your blog and submit it to the Carnival of Genealogy. Please act as your own "award presenter" by writing an introduction and include it in the "Remarks" box on the BlogCarnival submission form. The deadline for submissions is February 15th, 30 submissions will be accepted.

Submit your blog article to the next edition of the Carnival of Genealogy using our carnival submission form. Please use a descriptive phrase in the title of any articles you plan to submit and/or write a brief description/introduction to your articles in the "comment" box of the blog carnival submission form. This will give readers an idea of what you've written about and hopefully interest them in clicking on your link. Past posts and future hosts can be found on our blog carnival index page.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

The 88th Carnival of Genealogy Has Been Posted


poster courtesy of the footnoteMaven

The 88th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy has been posted over at Creative Gene. The theme was "Volunteerism!" Jasia has revamped the carnival and it has a whole new "feel" - besides comments here and there on the various submissions, she also showcases a Feature Article. I know that Jasia struggled with the direction the COG had been going, and I'm so excited to see its new rebirth!

Jasia announces: "The topic for the next edition of the Carnival of Genealogy will be: Ode to My Family's History! This time around we'll be composing a poem that tells our family's history. It can be long or short, rhyme or not rhyme, funny or serious, illustrated or not... you choose, but make it appropriate as an introduction for a book or video on your family history. The challenge is on! The deadline for submissions is February 1st, 30 submissions accepted." You can submit your piece here.

Tuesday, January 05, 2010

Lastest Carnivals are Posted!


poster courtesy of the footnoteMaven

Yesterday, Jasia of Creative Gene published the annual Resolutions theme of the Carnival of Genealogy (87th Edition). She also had some important changes to announce for future carnivals which you won't want to miss.




Jessica published the 25th Edition of the Carnival of Central and Eastern European Genealogy on Hanukkah and Christmas traditions today. The 26th Edition will be a carousel theme and submissions are due February 18th.




And Evelyn announces a delay in the publication of the Festival of Postcards (theme: "White") due to technical difficulties. Stay tuned!

Friday, January 01, 2010

Resolutions 2010


res o lu tion (noun)
A resolve or determination: to make a firm resolution to do something.
The act of resolving or determining upon an action or course of action, method, procedure, etc.
The mental state or quality of being resolved or resolute; firmness of purpose.
A solution, accommodation, or settling of a problem, controversy, etc. [1]

Here are my 2009 resolutions and how I did:

1. I have two specific tasks in mind that I would like to launch from this blog. One is a new column that I would like to see all genea-bloggers participate in, similar to Tombstone Tuesday or Wordless Wednesday. Another is a Challenge I came up with during the last couple of weeks which I came very close to launching today, but reconsidered when I figured that as I return to work next week after my surgery recovery, I may find I don't have the energy or time to devote to it. I will look at the spring or summer for the right opportunity to share it with you. It's on a large scale along the lines of the Genea-Blogger Games, but is not at all similar in topic. I will share both of these specific tasks in the future (stay tuned!). My new column morphed into Monday Madness. I give the goal an A+, but my participation in it a D, mainly because of my computer being down for four months. That was also to blame for my never having started the Challenge of which I spoke. I still would like to do it; we'll see what the summer brings.

2. I plan to write posts featuring the postcards of my husband's great-grandmother, similar to what Pam Warren is doing with Belle's Box. I also want to get my mother's letters written from Alaska to her parents in Michigan from 1966 - 1978 scanned, transcribed and posted to a private blog. I give myself an F here. Again, computer failure is to blame, and you'll see this as a constant challenge to nearly all my goals this year.

3. Speaking of this blog, I am looking to improve the visual look of it. It's much too cluttered for my minimalist taste. The problem has come when I've looked at other designs and realized that I will lose coding for a lot of my widgets if I change over. I just need some time to work on this. Didn't happen. Still want to do it!

4. Another blogging goal is to phase out AnceStories2 and add posts more frequently to my Atlas Project, personal, and Graveyard Rabbit blogs, while continuing to contribute to the EWGS and Bootcamp for Facebook blogs. I did phase out AnceStories2, and contributed quite a bit to the EWGS blog, but again, computer failure prevented me for accomplishing the rest of this goal.

5. I need to update all the pages on my AnceStories website, especially adding links to this blog. Computer failure (sigh).

6. I plan to hire two professional genealogists; one to hopefully knock down our MIDKIFF brick wall and another to look up my Great-grandfather YORK's military records. My husband became unemployed in May and this goal has to take a back seat until we are financially stable again.

7. I want to work on three brick walls this year: Berber (DeJONG) VALK (find birth information and parents' names); Jeremiah F. YORK (use land records to get evidence that he is the son of Stephen YORK and Amy FRANKLIN); and Levi McCLELLAN and wife Clarissa CLEVELAND (I'd like to determine their parents' names). I also want to see if I can find more vintage photographs from my mother-in-law's lines. I began work on my YORK line by obtaining some preliminary land records through my local Family History Center, but it's something I need to pursue further. This was a crazy, busy year, and probably the first year in a loooong time that I haven't regularly visited my FHC. I did make some headway on my McLALLIN and CLEVELAND lines with Levi's pension record.

8. I'd like to get all the items my uncle sent me from my maternal grandparents' estate scanned. When my uncle visited in June, he brought more records and photos. I did get those scanned to my laptop, which filled the hard drive completely. Getting my desktop repaired has allowed me the ability to scan the rest of the records, but the repairs didn't happen until after the school year began, and I've just been too busy to complete this goal.

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If you made it this far without falling asleep or leaving the blog, congratulations! Two thousand nine just wasn't a fun year, and in reading some of my colleagues' geneablogs, I find a common theme here. I learned quite a few things throughout the hard times though; some of them are: don't rely solely on a online backup system; don't put off large chunks of genealogy goals for Summer Break; don't beat yourself up when life gets in the way of making other plans (to misquote the Beatles).

Here's what I'd like to accomplish in 2010:

1. Get my hard drive cleaned up of all the duplicate files and folders which occurred when my mother board crashed.

2. Back up all my genealogy files to DVDs, making copies to give to other relatives "just in case."

3. Attend a major genealogical conference. The Washington State Genealogical Society's state conference was wonderful, but being on the conference committee had its downside as well as many benefits: I wasn't able to relax and just enjoy being there because there were a lot of responsibilities that I had to attend to. I'd like to be on the "other side" by just being an attendee.

Really, that's all I have on my "must do" list. I've decided that I can realistically accomplish the first two (as long as my computer remains working!) and that they are a priority. The last is on my wish list. In between are all kinds of minor details, such as continuing to cite my sources, scan documents, work on my brick walls, improve my blogging skills, and perhaps change the appearance of my blog. What are your goals for 2010?


Source: 1. resolution. Dictionary.com. Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1). Random House, Inc. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/resolution (accessed: January 01, 2009).

Monday, December 21, 2009

The Carnivals Are in Town!

The December Carnivals have arrived here in town! For those who are new to the term "blogging carnival," think of a magazine (carnival) whose articles (posts)--all on a theme--are written by many authors (bloggers) at their home blogs. The table of contents for this digital magazine appears at the host's blog.  Each month, there are at least half a dozen genealogy carnivals available to read, or to contribute to, if you're a blogger. I list each upcoming carnival at my Calendar of Events posts, written on the first of each month. You can refer to each month's Calendar as much as you want, for whenever a new carnival is published, I update the post.




The 7th Edition of the Canadian Genealogy Carnival has a Carousel (choose your own) theme. This carnival is always interesting even to those who may not have Canadian ancestors!






The 86th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy was a "two-fer"; in other words, it had two themes: The "Other" December Events, and Our Wish Lists for Genea-Santa. There were 17 submissions for the first theme and 22 for the second.



The 19th Edition of the Smile for the Camera Carnival has been published at Shades of the Departed. With "The Gift" being a theme, there were a record-breaking 62 submissions! Wow! My own story, Christmas Gifts, was also written for the Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories, as were many other submissions.

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As for upcoming carnivals, be on the lookout later this week for the Festival of Postcards (theme: White). Jessica is extending the deadline for the the 25th Edition of the Carnival of Central and Eastern European Genealogy (Christmas or Hanukkah Traditions) until December 28th, and submissions for the January 2010 Edition of the Graveyard Rabbits Carnival (Final Resting Place) are due December 25th.

Other holiday events include the Holiday 2009 Geneabloggers Cookbook (free) and the annual Blog Caroling Event hosted by the footnoteMaven. And Donna has republished "'Twas Just Days Before Christmas" to the amusement of all!


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Monday, December 07, 2009

The Latest in Carnivals and Good Reads

Over the weekend, several carnivals plus the holiday edition of Shades of the Departed were published. If you haven't read them yet, you're in for treat in your genealogical reading this week!


On the first, the December 2009 edition of the Graveyard Rabbits Carnival was published, its theme being "In the News." There were eight submissions describing how local cemeteries made the news and why. Check them out! The January 2010 edition's topic is "Final Resting Place":

In today's mobile society, does one choose a place near where they last lived? Or do they return to the place of their roots? Do they rest in a family plot? If so, and if married, whose family plot? How has the determination of the final resting place changed between the time of our ancestors and now?

Submissions are due December 25 here.


poster courtesy of the footnoteMaven

On Friday, the 85th edition of the Carnival of Genealogy was published at Greta's Genealogy Blog. The theme was Orphans and Orphans; true orphans who lost their parents, and those "orphans" in our family trees - individuals who never married or had children and whose family line ceases with them. There were 21 submissions, many of them poignant and all of them interesting!

There are two topics for the next edition of the Carnival of Genealogy. The first is "Other Holiday Happenings!" Often times December to mid-January birthdays and anniversaries get over shadowed by the Christmas/Hanukkah/New Year holidays. So we're going to shine a spotlight on those family members and ancestors this time around. Select one or more December to mid-January birthdays and/or anniversaries on your family tree. Write a short tribute to or memory of those birthday guys and gals and write a toast to the anniversary couples. Share it in the COG!

Part Two will be a separate blog post. We can't go into the Christmas holiday without our genealogy wish lists for Genea-Santa!!! So write up a list of what you'd like Genea-Santa to bring you and share it in the COG :-) The deadline for all entries is December 15th. Both can be submitted here.



And yesterday, the holiday edition of Shades of the Departed was published. Over 80 pages of the fascination of old photos and how they relate to genealogy is available in this lovely and surprising digital magazine! (Did I mention that it's free?)


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Thursday, November 19, 2009

The 84th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy is Posted!


poster courtesy of the footnoteMaven

Jasia recently posted the 84th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy, whose theme was "What the COG (Carnival of Genealogy) means to me. This was a fabulous carnival to both participate in and read! I really liked the way Jasia organized the posts, and I encourage you to enjoy it.

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Call for Submissions! The topic for the next edition of the COG is: “Orphans and Orphans.” The first type of orphan refers to those ancestors or relatives who lost their parents when they were young. The second type of orphan would be those siblings or cousins of our ancestors whom we think of as “reverse orphans.” They are the relatives who, for whatever reason – death at a young age, never having married or had children, or having children who did not survive to provide descendants – have no direct descendants of their own, so it falls to us, their collateral relatives, to learn and write their story. Greta will be the host this time around (thank you Greta!). The deadline for submissions is December 1st.

Submit your blog article to the next edition of the Carnival of Genealogy using our carnival submission form. Please use a descriptive phrase in the title of any articles you plan to submit and/or write a brief description/introduction to your articles in the "comment" box of the blog carnival submission form. This will give readers an idea of what you've written about and hopefully interest them in clicking on your link. Past posts and future hosts can be found on our blog carnival index page.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

The Joy of COG

...or, What the Carnival of Genealogy Means to Me

poster courtesy of the inimitable footnoteMaven, who has been designing COG posters since the 28th Edition

In the beginning...

Mid-December 2006. I had been blogging quietly for nearly a year, at a different blogging platform, with an audience of one: myself. I found a few other genealogy blogs (four, to be exact), one of whom was Randy Seaver's Genea-Musings. He had highlighted something that was new to me, the Carnival of Genealogy.

I had never heard of a blog carnival before, much less the Carnival of Genealogy (COG). I discovered upon reading it that it was similar to an online magazine, except all the articles (posts)--focused on one theme--were written at each of the authors' (bloggers') blog sites instead of at one online location. The Carnival post listed at the Creative Gene blog was like a table of contents listing each submission with a descriptive paragraph and a hyperlink to the full article.

Aha! Here was a way to find more genealogy bloggers, and perhaps a few more readers as well! I quickly wrote out my first submission for the 14th COG, whose topic was Genealogy Gift Giving, My Genealogy Gift List: Victoria's Secret? Never!

Wow! Jasia, the host of the COG, wrote a very kind description: "You have to read this one... written tongue in cheek, Miriam gives a good giggle while telling us whose secrets she'd really like to discover! Very clever!" And I noticed my blog got more views than all the previous views combined! Furthermore, I received my very first COG comment from Lee Anders: "Love your post! Who has a need for Victoria's Secret when there are juicier secrets out there just waiting to be uncovered?" Needless to say, I was hooked!


Let Me Count the Ways
Participating in the COG has multiple benefits. First, there's the focus one must take to write a quality article. It sharpens thinking and writing skills. I can't tell you the number of times I've gone to prepare a post and in looking at the corresponding genealogy research necessary for the topic, I end up going a little deeper into my analysis of the sources, timelines, and documents involved. Sometimes I make new discoveries! The COG is good for writing, but it's also great for research!

Next, there's the reading; having others read your post and reading other submissions. The COG definitely increases traffic to your blog, but it also creates a "paper trail" for other relatives researching the same ancestors. Years after I've written a post for the COG, I'll get a comment from someone whose Google search on an ancestor led me to my blog. Again, the COG is good for readership, but it's also great for making genealogical connections! Also, by reading others' submissions, you get exposure to different writing and research styles, and who knows? You may just discover you have a distant cousin who's also blogging the COG!

And then there are the connections: not just the possibility of connecting with distant cousins, but the camaraderie that grows between yourself and other COG bloggers. Some of my closest friends are those I have never met in real life! We write and we read each other's blogs. We laugh and we cry. We pray for them when they're going through personal rough spots and we do the genealogy happy dance when they break through a genealogy brick wall. We end up being Facebook friends and Twitter followers and we email and instant message and Skype each other. And for all that, the COG is alone worth it!


My Faves
I have a few favorite COG editions, and they tend to be annually themed, traditionalist that I am. They include the Resolutions Editions (January), the iGene Awards, a.k.a. the "Best of the Best" (February), the Women's History Month Editions (March), the Swimsuit Editions (June), and the Wish List Editions (December).

Of all the ones I've written, my favorite are My Genealogy Gift List: Victoria's Secret? Never! (14th Edition - and my first COG submission), Childhood Food Memories (16th), the two I wrote for the 18th Edition, 5 Tips for Michigan Internet Research and Recommended Reading for Michigan Research, One Woman: Barbara Dorothy Valk, Missionary to Central Africa (20th), Eight Generations of Mothers (24th) and A Polar Bear in North Russia (30th).

Two submissions that are among my favorites were actually written by my parents. My mother wrote her school day memories in Mom, How'd You Get So Smart? (48th), and I copied an article my dad had written years ago for an association newsletter, "Pygmy Goats in Alaska" (53rd).

I also hosted my first COG last August with a theme I picked myself, Disasters! (77th). Although time-consuming to create (which leads me to credit Jasia as a superwoman to do this first twice a month and now once a month!), it was a lot of fun and very interesting to put together.


Ups and Downs
Writing for the COG isn't always easy. By looking at the list of my COG submissions at the bottom of this post, I can see periods when my computer wasn't working, my life was chaotically busy, or my writing had hit a slump.

I'm not the only one who rollercoasters. A short while back, some of us "oldtimers" had an email discussion bemoaning our lack of posts, creativity, and motivation, and our writers' blocks. The only thing to do is to pick yourself up and keep going. Sometimes those bursts of great writing come forth only after forcing yourself to sit down and write.

I don't always submit my posts in a timely manner. I've missed a few deadlines but published my posts anyway, because I knew I had something that needed to be said. I've recycled a few old posts from time to time to use, either because I wasn't feeling creative, or actually when a few old posts fit the COG theme perfectly. Good writing takes time, and my usual COG post takes me approximately two to three hours to write.

But all in all, I have enjoyed writing for the COG and I hope to increase the amount of my submissions after a lean year of blogging in general.


Back to the Future
If you've never written for the COG before, I encourage you to do so! I wrote a tutorial here at the Bootcamp for Geneabloggers blog on how to submit a post to the carnival. If you've never hosted a carnival, then I also encourage you to contact Jasia and let her know you'd be willing to do so. She's always looking for more hosts!

I look forward to many more years of future COGs as well as to its natural evolution. There can only be better things to come as our writing and research improves!

Jasia, thank you for starting this wonderful event, for keeping it up despite all the hard work and times of discouragement. Your carnival has been a wonderful example for many other genealogy-based carnivals and you deserve all the accolades that come your way!


My COG Submissions

14 - My Genealogy Gift List: Victoria's Secret? Never! (Annual Wish List Edition)

15 - My New Year's Genealogy Resolutions for 2007 (Annual Resolutions Edition)

16 - Childhood Food Memories

17 - "I'd Like to Thank the Academy"

18 - 5 Tips for Michigan Internet Research and Recommended Reading for Michigan Research

19 - 185 River Street

20 - One Woman: Barbara Dorothy Valk, Missionary to Central Africa (Annual Women's History Month Edition)

22 - Bob and the Cow

24 - Eight Generations of Mothers

26 - Six Generations of Fathers: The Midkiff Men and Spokane, Washington: Home of Father's Day

28 - Origins of Our Surnames

31 - The Legend of Joseph Josiah ROBBINS

32 - A Polar Bear in North Russia

34 - 29 East LaCrosse: Haunted or Not?

36 - Loving Genealogy...For Over 30 Years!

37 - Dear Sinterklaas (Annual Wish List Edition)

39 - The Midkiff Family: Y2K Ready

39 - My New Years' Resolutions for 2008 (Annual Resolutions Edition)

41 - Guests for Dinner

42 - AnceStories Presents the iGene Awards (Annual "Best of the Best" Edition)

43 - Technology and Genealogy

45 - 1967 Model No. 1

46 - Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes

48 - Mom, How'd You Get So Smart?

49 - In the Good Old Summertime (Annual Swimsuit Edition)

51 - An Independent Man: John WILKINSON, Jr.

52 - What's Age Got to Do With It?

53 - "Pygmy Goats in Alaska"

54 - Our Family Language

55 - Digital Show and Tell

56 - Miriam's Ten Essential Genealogy Books

61 - Advent Memories No. 18: Christmas Stockings and Advent Memories No. 3: Holiday Foods

62 - All I Want for Christmas Is... (Annual Wish List Edition)

63 - Resolutions (Annual Resolutions Edition)

64 - Winter Photo Essay: Marie Lewis

77 - Fire! (my submission)

77 - Disasters! (hosted)

82 - My Favorite Genealogical Society

83 - Eight Musical Things About Me

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

My Favorite Genealogical Society

If you don't count my parents, I don't have Eastern Washington ancestors. Like many Americans in today's mobile society, I don't live anywhere near where my ancestors lived. My parents are from Western Michigan and a year after they wed in 1966, they moved to Alaska to do mission work with Native Alaskans. Twelve years later, we moved to Eastern Washington and have lived here ever since. The courthouse and cemeteries, archives and libraries for this area hold few records of our family. So why would I want to join my local genealogical society?

That's the unasked question that basically was at the back of my mind for many years after becoming actively involved in genealogy. I knew there was a local society here in town. For many years, our local newspaper, The Spokesman-Review, had a weekly genealogy column by Donna Potter Phillips. Donna always highlighted the Eastern Washington Genealogical Society in her column, but for some reason, I never thought about it enough to consider attending meetings, much less joining as a member. Little did I know that someday, Donna would become my mentor as well as my fellow team blogger for the EWGS blog!

I do regret that I didn't join EWGS sooner. How nice it would have been to get advice early on in my "hunt," especially in the days before it was common for people to have personal computers and Internet access to use as research tools! The society has dozens of experienced family historians and researchers who did genealogy the old-fashioned way and so a lack of online resources is never a challenge to them! They know where the hard-to-find documents are and how to access them. EWGS has always had fantastic yearly workshops and seminars, bringing in "big name" genealogists as speakers, and in attending these, I would have learned so much more at an earlier stage in my obsession passion to find those elusive ancestors.

My first interaction with the society was when I attended the October 2002 workshop on military records, presented by Craig Scott. I was not a member, but somehow I heard about the workshop and decided it would be a good experience for me, as up to that point, I had mainly researched vital and census records. The workshop was very informative and helpful since I have many ancestors who served in the military in our nation's history. I believe I attended one or two more October workshops over the next year or so and then at that point, became a member.

It wasn't long after that when I was asked to serve on the Ways and Means committee and to organize the society's next Rest Stop fundraiser. Most of the funds that are raised are used to purchase new books, CDs, and other resources for the society's genealogical collection, housed on the third floor of the downtown branch of Spokane Public Library. Eventually, I volunteered to head the Members Education committee, which plans and finds presenters for our computer education classes held every third Saturday of the month, free for our members. Many of my readers also know that I started a society blog, with assistance from fellow members Donna Potter Phillips and Charles Hansen. Recently, I served as Vendor Chairperson for the 2009 State Conference committee when our society hosted the Washington State Genealogical Society's annual state conference. My latest adventure involves accepting the nomination to serve on our board as 1st Vice President, whose responsibilities include planning programs for our regular meetings as well as finding presenters for our annual workshops and seminars.

All this is said not to pat myself on the back, but to show how joining and serving in your local society can be a worthwhile and enlightening experience. My society has taught me leadership skills and research techniques, offered networking techniques (you soon discover who within your society is the "expert" on certain research topics or locations!), and expanded my friendship circle, which includes members from age 11 to 88!

In addition to the benefits mentioned above (workshops, classes, etc.), our society offers the award-winning Bulletin published four times a year and a genealogical collection covering U.S. and international resources that rivals those of many societies in much larger cities. We have working partnerships with the Spokane Public Library, our four local Family History Centers, and the Eastern Washington Historical Society. Many of our members also belong to local heritage and lineage societies, so our resource network spreads wide over the area. We often collaborate with other local genealogical societies in Eastern Washington, notably the Tri-City Genealogical Society and the Northeast Washington Genealogical Society, as well as those in North Idaho.

As for other societies, I'm a past member of the Western Michigan Genealogical Society and the Potter County (Pennsylvania) Historical Society which has served me well for the purposes for which I joined at the time. But being active in my local society, even though my ancestors did not live here, has enriched my genealogical life much more than those societies located in my ancestral locations. The New England Historical and Genealogical Society was one I recently joined due to the wealth of data on its website which is available to members only. I'm also one of the founding members of the Geneabloggers "society," a loosely-knit organization of genealogy bloggers and their readers. As social networking and traditional societies and clubs evolve and as video streaming and other technologies improve and become more affordable, I believe we will see virtual groups becoming more popular, not just in genealogy, but in other types of groups as well.

If you are involved in the search for your ancestors but have not considered--or have discounted--your local genealogical society as a resource, I encourage you to take steps toward membership. And if the society somehow isn't what you'd expect, then volunteer and do the necessary work to make it exactly that. Don't be afraid to try new things. There'll always be naysayers. Sometimes those kind of people just need to see a plan take shape before they can let go of their fears and embrace it, especially when it comes to things like technology. Better to have tried out a society and have it disappoint than to find out later down the road that you could have saved a lot a time and energy in your research by being connected with a great group!